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Tuesday, May 25, 2010

Why You Should Not Do Woman Abuse

Why You Should Not Do Woman Abuse
As we all know that nowadays there are a lot of woman abuses. The common victim of the abuse is woman. Woman abuse can happen in several relationships like lover, family, dates, and business relationship. I write this article for all of the people especially a man that has a big chance being abuser. There are a lot of reasons why you should not do woman abuse. Some of them are that man and woman have the same right, that your action can harm other people, that you can be sent to the prison and that you can be hated by people around you.
The first reason why you should not do woman abuse is that man and woman have the same right. As we all know that all of the people in the world even man and woman or old and young are human being. They are created by God with the same status. Man and woman are same in front of God. They also have the same right in front of law. There is no difference between them and both of them can do everything what they want. However, everybody should not harm the others and you have to help other people who need your help.
The second reason why you should not do woman abuse is that your action can harm other people. You can harm other people especially a woman who become your victim. There are some kinds of abuse like physical abuse, emotional and psychological abuse, sexual abuse, economic or financial abuse and spiritual abuse. The actions that are included in physical abuse are beating, burning, slapping, kicking or biting. You should not do those actions because there are a lot of effects of physical abuse like the victim will get serious injuries, they will hospitalize and you will lose your money for a hospitalize cost. The examples of emotional or psychological abuse are yelling, screaming, insults, threats and humiliation. You should not do those actions because there are some effects of emotional or psychological abuse like low self-esteem, self degradation, self abuse, difficulty with relationship, acute anxiety, frequent crying, chronic stress, depression, suicidal thoughts, dissociation, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, eating disorders, adjustment disorder with depressed mood, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder and nightmares. Rape, unwanted sexual touching, sexual harassment, and sexual exploitation are included in sexual abuse. You should not do that because there are several effects of sexual abuse like sexually transmitted diseases, including HIV and other genital diseases. There are a lot of bad effects of woman abuse, it is really hurt them so you should not do those actions if you do not want to harm other people especially woman.
The third reason why you should not do woman abuse is that you can be sent to the prison. As we all know that our country is a constitutional state. If you do something that against law, you will have to deal with the police. You will be sent to the court and you have to responsible for your behavior by spending your time in the prison. You will be sent to the prison and do your prison times depend on the law. You will be hated by other people especially your family. Your family will be disappointed because of your behavior and you will lose your friends because you become a criminal.
The fourth reason why should not do woman abuse is that you can be hated by people around you. You know that if you do abuse it means that you harm other people and you have to responsible for your behavior. You will be avoided by other people and it can make you be depression. The other people will keep away from you because they are afraid if you do the same thing to them.
I have said just some reasons of why you should not do woman abuse, so I hope that now you know a little thing about woman abuse and you will think carefully if you will harm other people especially woman. There are a lot of disadvantages if you do woman abuse like you will be sent to the prison and you will be hated by other people. If you are angry with your partner please mind your emotion so you will not do abuse to your partner. However, if you are abuser, you can see the psychologist or your family to share your problem and solve the problem. You should not harm other people but you have to help other people who need your help.

Reference:
(2009, November 26). Woman Abuse. Retrieved May 16, 2010, from the Public Health Agency of Canada: http://www.phac-aspc.gc.ca/ncfv-cnivf/publications/femviof-eng.php




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